The holidays are a magical time filled with twinkling lights, cozy gatherings, and, let’s be honest, a fair share of family drama. As we gather around tables overflowing with food and cheer, it’s become clear that some age-old etiquette rules are slipping through the cracks—especially among younger generations. Sure, we’re all about breaking traditions and making our own paths, but some of these etiquette gems are worth holding on to. So grab a cup of coffee, and let’s chat about six holiday etiquette rules that might need a little more love this season.
1. RSVP Like You Mean It
Ah, the RSVP. It’s a tiny acronym that carries a whole lot of weight, yet many younger folks treat it like a suggestion rather than a commitment. When an invitation lands in your inbox or on your doorstep, it’s not just a friendly nudge; it’s a heartfelt request. When you RSVP “maybe” or ignore the invite altogether, you’re leaving your host hanging. They might be sweating over seating arrangements or worrying about how much turkey to roast. A simple “yes” or “no” goes a long way in helping them plan. Plus, it shows you respect their effort to bring everyone together.
2. Put Down the Phone
Let’s face it: we’re all a little too attached to our phones, especially during the holidays. While it’s tempting to document every moment on social media, there’s something to be said for living in the moment. When you’re at a family dinner, try to engage with the people around you instead of scrolling through your feed. You might actually hear some hilarious stories from Aunt Edna or discover just how much your cousin has changed since last year. Trust me, the likes on your Instagram post won’t taste as sweet as Grandma’s famous pie.
3. Don’t Show Up Empty-Handed
This one’s a classic, yet it seems to be fading into the background. Whether you’re headed to a friend’s holiday party or an extended family gathering, bringing something—anything—shows appreciation. It doesn’t have to be extravagant; a bottle of wine, a box of cookies, or even a festive candle can do the trick. Think of it as your ticket to the holiday fun! Plus, it gives you a great excuse to try that new cookie recipe you found on TikTok. Who knows? You might just become the star of the evening.
4. Be Mindful of Dietary Restrictions
We’ve all heard the phrase “it’s the thought that counts,” but it’s hard to feel the love when you’ve got a plate full of food you can’t eat. Dietary restrictions are more common than ever, and while you may love your grandma’s famous casserole, not everyone can indulge. If you’re hosting, it’s a good idea to ask guests about their preferences ahead of time. If you’re a guest, don’t be shy about letting your host know what you can or can’t eat. A little communication goes a long way, and it ensures everyone can enjoy the feast without stress.
5. Keep the Political Talk at Bay
The holidays are about celebration, love, and—let’s be real—keeping the peace. While it’s tempting to dive into heated discussions about politics or current events, remember that family gatherings often have a mix of opinions and beliefs. It’s not the time or place to hash out differences, especially over that last slice of pumpkin pie. Instead, focus on what brought you all together: the joy of the season, the laughter of shared stories, and maybe a little friendly competition over board games.
6. Thank Your Hosts
Last but definitely not least, gratitude goes a long way. After a lovely evening filled with laughter and delicious food, don’t forget to thank your hosts. A simple “thank you for having me” can brighten their day and let them know their efforts were appreciated. If you’re feeling extra generous, follow up with a handwritten note or a quick text the next day. It’s a small gesture that can leave a big impact, and it might just earn you a spot on the invite list for next year’s festivities.
So, there you have it! Six holiday etiquette rules that might just help you navigate the season with a little more grace and a lot more joy. While it’s important to break some traditions and make your own, keeping these classic rules in mind will surely make the holidays a little brighter for everyone involved. After all, isn’t that what the season is all about?
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