Ah, Christmas—the season of cheer, joy, and, let’s be honest, a sprinkle of culinary obligation. While we all have our festive favorites that we genuinely look forward to whipping up (hello, gingerbread cookies!), there are certain dishes that seem to show up every holiday season whether we like it or not. You know the ones I’m talking about: the recipes that almost feel like they’re on a mandatory rotation. So grab a cup of cocoa, and let’s chat about six of these holiday staples that we all make out of obligation.
1. The Fruitcake: The Holiday Classic
Ah, the infamous fruitcake. It’s the dish that everyone pretends to love but secretly dreads. You can almost hear the collective groan when someone announces that they’ve brought a homemade version to the family gathering. It’s dense, it’s fruity, and let’s be real—it’s often more of a doorstop than a dessert. But every year, someone insists on making it, and we all nod along, pretending we’re excited to see it slice. Maybe it’s tradition, or maybe it’s just a test of our holiday spirit. Either way, fruitcake is here to stay, whether we like it or not.
2. Green Bean Casserole: The “Must-Have” Side

If there’s one dish that has become synonymous with holiday dinners, it’s the green bean casserole. You know the one: a can of green beans, cream of mushroom soup, and those crispy fried onions on top. It’s the dish that everyone claims to love, yet it often gets pushed to the side amidst all the other glorious options on the table. But every Christmas, like clockwork, someone makes it, and we all take a spoonful, if only to be polite. Sure, it’s not the star of the show, but it’s like that reliable friend who shows up to every party—always there, always a little awkward, but somehow necessary.
3. Ambrosia Salad: The Mystery Dish
Ah, ambrosia salad, the dish that brings together fruit, marshmallows, and a whole lot of confusion. It’s a sweet concoction that feels like a dessert masquerading as a salad. Most people aren’t sure how it made its way onto holiday tables, but somehow, it’s a staple. Whether it’s the bright colors or the nostalgia it brings, someone always insists on making it. And while you might take a cautious spoonful, it’s usually followed by a polite smile and a “Thanks, but I’ll save room for pie.”
4. Stuffing: The Love-Hate Relationship
Let’s talk about stuffing, or dressing, depending on where you hail from. This dish can be downright delicious when made right, but let’s not kid ourselves—there are some questionable versions out there. You know the ones: overly soggy or, worse, dry as the Sahara. Yet, every Christmas, someone feels the need to make it. Maybe it’s tradition, or maybe they think they can elevate it to a gourmet level. Either way, we all end up with a helping on our plates, often accompanied by a resigned sigh as we wonder why we keep letting stuffing into our lives.
5. Pea Salad: The Unexpected Guest
Okay, let’s be honest—who actually craves pea salad? It’s like the underdog of holiday dishes, showing up uninvited to the feast. With its mix of peas, cheese, and mayonnaise, it’s a bit of an enigma. But somehow, it finds its way to the table every year, often made by the same enthusiastic relative who swears it’s a family tradition. We all nod along, take a small spoonful, and then swiftly move on to the mashed potatoes. But hey, at least it adds a pop of color to the spread!
6. Cookie Platters: The Overachiever’s Delight
Finally, let’s talk about the cookie platters that seem to multiply overnight. They come in all shapes and sizes, from the classic sugar cookies to the more adventurous peppermint bark. And while we all love cookies, there’s always that one person who goes a little overboard, baking enough to feed a small army. You’ve got a mix of delicious treats and a few questionable ones that make you raise an eyebrow. But even if you’re secretly dreading the seventh cookie, you can’t help but appreciate the effort that went into it.
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