Couple Who Bought A House Before Getting Married Wants To Move Out To The Country With $220,000 In Equity And The Hosts Call It A No Brainer

Here is a question a lot of couples end up asking sooner than they expected: when does it make sense to sell the house and buy a new one? On a call-in segment of the Real Estate The Ramsey Way channel, a 29 year old caller with no kids yet laid out his situation. He bought his house in 2023, before he got married. It sits in a really nice part of town, close to schools and conveniences. But he describes himself as more of a country guy, and he and his wife want to look at houses farther out of town.

Couple weighing a move to the country beside a stock photo of a white farmhouse in a field.

The hosts did not need long to answer. In the lesson Don’t Upgrade Your Home Until You Watch This, they called his plan a no brainer.

The Couple Who Bought First And Married Second

The caller says he is a bit of a spreadsheet nerd, while his wife is more of a follow your heart kind of woman. They are trying to wrestle with when to make the move. One host cracked that after the wedding, the couple discovered they had bought the wrong house, which is why the hosts tell people not to buy before they are married.

Then came the numbers. The couple has about $220,000 in equity in the house. The caller says they owe about $315,000. The host did the quick math and figured it is a $550,000 to $600,000 house. The caller said the most they would hope to spend on the next place is $490,000 to $500,000.

Why The Hosts Called It A No Brainer

The host’s logic was simple. This couple would be moving down in price, and they would take out a smaller mortgage than the one they have now. That is a no brainer mathematically, the host said. If you move down in house and keep the same size mortgage or less, especially if you put it on a 15 year loan, the decision is easy.

The host also noted what changes the conversation. Moving up to an $800,000 house, for example, is a different discussion. That one comes down to one of two things: when you have saved up the money to pay the difference, or when you take out a new mortgage on a 15 year fixed where the payment is less than a fourth of your take home pay. But since this couple is moving down, the host’s advice was to do it.

The host also pushed the caller to put the new loan on a 15 year term and keep going until the house is paid off. The reasoning was about the couple’s own track record. They are young, they are smart, they have already paid off $130,000 and they are making good money.

A Second Caller In Breckenridge

A second caller on the same segment lives near Breckenridge, Colorado, where housing prices are very high. According to the caller, local governments there have created workforce housing programs. You must live and work locally, you cannot own any other real estate, and appreciation is capped at 2 to 3 percent per year.

This caller currently owns a market rate two bedroom condo worth about $750,000. The caller could move sideways, or even down in value, into a four bedroom workforce home, and asked what the host thought.

The host’s answer was short and firm: would not do that. The reason for owning real estate, the host said, is the appreciation. A cap on how much the home can grow takes away the main financial reason to own.

What You Can Take From These Calls

Most of us are not in either caller’s exact spot. But the thinking behind the answers is useful for anyone wondering whether to sell and move.

Start with what is driving the decision. The host’s first question was what is behind the move. Know your why before you list the house.
Compare the new mortgage to the old one. If you are moving down in price and borrowing less, the math is on your side.
Look at your equity. Equity is the gap between what the house is worth and what you owe. In this case it was about $220,000, which gives the couple real room to work with.
Be careful about moving up. The hosts say a bigger house is a different conversation. Save the difference first, or make sure the payment stays under a fourth of your take home pay on a 15 year fixed loan.
Ask what you give up. The Breckenridge caller’s question shows that a lower price tag can come with strings, like a cap on appreciation or rules on where you work.

Heart And Spreadsheet Can Both Win

There is something nice about this couple. One half loves spreadsheets, the other half follows her heart, and in this case both answers pointed the same way. The numbers said they could move down in price with a smaller mortgage. The heart said the country was calling.

When the math and the dream line up, the hosts say, do not overthink it. If you are in a similar spot, it is worth running your own numbers first. Write down what you owe, what the house is worth, what you want to buy next and what the payment would be. Then see if the answer is as clear as it was for this couple.

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