Nobody likes opening an envelope from their mortgage company and finding a surprise. Real estate agent and homeowner @lala_myrealtor did exactly that when she sat down with the yearly escrow analysis for her own home.

The number staring back at her was $6,400. According to her, that was the shortage in her escrow account, and if the shortage was still unpaid by December, her monthly mortgage payment would jump in January from $2,400 to about $3,200.
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“I Called My Mortgage Company And I Said Absolutely Not”
She did not sit on the news. She picked up the phone and told her lender she would be handling her own escrow from here on. In her words, she asked for an escrow waiver.
She explains that a waiver means the homeowner, rather than the lender, takes care of the property tax and homeowner’s insurance bills. Because she has enough equity in her property, she says she is allowed to do that.
The result, as she tells it, is a monthly mortgage payment that drops from $2,400 to $1,600. Instead of writing a check for the $6,400 shortage, she says she is really saving about $1,900.
Why Her Shortage Turned Into A Bigger Bill Than Expected
Part of the reason, she says, is a newer rule that requires lenders in her area to hold two months of property taxes as a cushion in the escrow account. For her, she says, that cushion works out to $1,900.
Her point is that the cushion is money she would rather keep in her own hands. She says she will now pay her property taxes twice a year and handle her own homeowner’s insurance.
Her advice is plain: “If you have enough equity in your house, call your mortgage company. See if you could get an escrow waiver and pay it yourself, but don’t forget to pay it when they’re due.”
Her Caption Adds A Warning: “It Is Not For Everybody”
In her post, she says she asked for the waiver because she would rather control her own money than have a lender hold it all year. Then she adds a caution that is worth repeating.
She writes that you need equity, a strong payment history, and the discipline to pay those big bills on time. That last item is the one that trips people up.
What Escrow Actually Is, In Plain English
For readers who have never looked closely at their statement, escrow is simply a side account your lender runs. Each month, part of your payment goes into it, and the lender uses it to pay your property tax bill and your homeowner’s insurance premium when they come due.
Once a year, the lender usually reviews the account. This is the escrow analysis she mentions. It compares what was collected with what was actually paid out, and it projects what the coming year will cost.
If taxes or insurance went up, the account can come up short. Lenders then commonly give the homeowner a choice, such as paying the shortage in a lump sum or spreading it across higher monthly payments. The exact choices vary by lender and by state.
Before You Pick Up The Phone, Do Your Homework
Her story is one homeowner’s experience, and the rules for escrow waivers differ. Many lenders set their own conditions, and some loan types require escrow no matter how much equity you have. Local law can also play a part.
A good first step is to read your loan paperwork and your latest escrow statement. Look for the line items for taxes and insurance, and see whether either one rose since last year.
Then call your servicer and ask direct questions. Is a waiver offered on your type of loan? How much equity or what payment history do they require? Is there a fee, or a change to your interest rate, if you opt out?
The Discipline Part Nobody Should Skip
Taking over your own escrow means you become the bill collector for yourself. Property taxes may be due in big chunks, and a missed payment can bring penalties, interest, or worse.
Insurance matters just as much. If a homeowner’s policy lapses, the lender can step in and buy coverage on its own, which is often more expensive than a policy you shop for yourself.
One simple habit is to open a separate savings account and move a set amount into it every month. If you are paying $1,600 instead of $2,400, you are really just deciding where the difference sits until the bills are due.
- Mark every tax due date and insurance renewal date on a calendar you actually check.
- Set aside the monthly equivalent in a dedicated account, so the money is there when the bill arrives.
- Keep copies of every payment confirmation in case your lender asks for proof.
Who Should Think Twice
If a lump sum of thousands of dollars twice a year would strain your budget, the monthly escrow habit may actually be the safer choice. It spreads the cost into pieces you barely notice.
On the other hand, if you are organized and keep a healthy cushion, paying directly can give you more control. That is the trade she made for her own home, and it is the reason she says she would rather handle it herself.
Either way, the most useful lesson from her post is to read the escrow analysis the day it arrives. She caught her shortage before the December deadline, and that gave her time to make a call and ask questions. For advice on your own loan, talk to your lender or a qualified housing professional.
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